The above quote was sent to our staff so that it could be used in class/mentoring lessons and discussions. While the quote is talking about what a woman needs and how a man should act, the reverse is also true. It is important for parents, teachers, and mentors to help students learn to sort through the qualities of those they are going to have a relationship with, whether it is a friendship or dating relationship. They need to think about what type of character they desire in a friend and how they can be a good friend. When it is a dating relationship, it is best for them to decide what their expectations are before they are “caught up” in the moment. It can be exciting to have someone like you and that feeling may make the decisions about whether that person is worthy to be their boyfriend/girlfriend, especially if they haven’t thought about the traits they would want in a boyfriend/girlfriend. Be sure to talk with your child about what are important qualities to have in a friend or boyfriend/girlfriend and what qualities your child should have in order to be a good friend. They need to have respect for themselves and the other person. It is not always easy to sort out the frogs from the princes(s) but thinking things over with a clear head before can help.
Partnering with you,
Jeanne & Gary